Tom’s Stoma Journey

Tom’s journey began in 2021, when he noticed blood in his stools, later that year a colonoscopy showed an area of concern in his rectum and Tom was diagnosed with rectal cancer, for which he was treated.

In 2023 the cancer returned, growing through the rectal wall, Tom then had a lower anterior resection, it would only be one month later when Tom was rushed back into theatre to have a permanent colostomy formed.

Tom is married, has 1 son, a golden retriever and 2 rag dolls! Tom is an avid gym goer, loves boxing, food and socialising time with his friends and family.

Tom and Confidence BE^®

“The texture, the shape and the colour choices are it for me, they look the most fashionable bag out there”.

Tom’s Stoma Journey

Tom was diagnosed with Crohn’s in 2007, with his symptoms becoming steadily worse over time.

Things took a turn in the 2 years leading up to his surgery, when Tom wasn’t on any medication, he wasn’t leaving the house as he needed to be close to the toilet and was in constant pain. Toms’ mental health was very low during this time, which affected his relationship, his work and his day-to-day life. Toms surgery was planned for 2023, where is ileostomy was formed.

Tom is really keen to share the reality of men living with a stoma, he struggled to find this after his surgery and would like to help others in a similar situation.

Tom lives with his partner Amy and their dog Audrey! He is a Graphic Designer and has an incredible sense of humour!

Tom and Confidence BE^®

Tom thinks Confidence BE® is great and hasn’t experienced one single leak. Tom feels Salts are accessible, open and honest which is so important in the stoma community.

Tom brings a unique and entertaining touch of dark humour to his Instagram page and really wants to create a space where men feel empowered to share their thoughts and experiences.